Friday, 31 August 2012

Goodbye, summer!



Another summer passed. Hot, messy, short and sometimes annoying summer. I remember when I was little and the summer holidays seemed never to come to an end. And when they did, I was already excited about going back to school. Things changed, time gets crueler and crueler as you grow up, for some reason.
I remember the summers when I was still at uni. Going to bed at 6 am and not waking up before 2pm, talking to wonderful people and not worrying about a thing. Certainly had their charm, I would go back to that anytime.
This summer is the first one I’m experiencing since I’ve got a job. I didn’t really enjoy it, going to work in the summer should be frowned upon. Also, first summer in many years that I didn’t get the chance to see the seaside. It feels odd.
My past 3 summers always ended in tears. Autumn equaled departure. His departure, again and again. I never looked forward to autumn all this time.
Now, there’s no departure. But the routine I’ve been stuck with for these past few months is annoying. I want to believe this autumn will come with change, good change.  
Until then, goodbye summer! I will miss you and your 45C!  

Thursday, 23 August 2012

Why people should let the Kristen Stewart story go


I know it’s old news but I wanted to give my opinion on this subject and for some reason no one’s willing to talk about it. Nor to listen to it, for that matter. So I decided the blog is the way to go.
Ok, so Kristen messed up. She cheated on her beloved boyfriend with some older famous guy, married and 2 kids as a bonus.
She publicly admitted it, then the shiny vampire broke up with her and she’s in hiding, all ashamed and humiliated and depressed.
It’s not the first time this happens in the real world. And I don’t get why people make suuuch a big deal about it. We all made mistakes. Some of us still make them. So what’s the deal? She’s young and behind the celebrity face there’s a human person. She is still growing, still learning. It’s how it is, it just happens sometimes. There’s no need to point fingers. But if I were to do that, I’d definitely blame the guy. Simply because he has a family. When you’re in a relationship things are different, especially if you’re young. But a family is a serious commitment – wife, kids, bills and everything else that comes with it. I’m not saying it’s right and no, I’m not defending her and blaming him. What they did, both Kristen and that Rupert guy, is wrong. But that doesn’t mean we should judge them. We have no idea what’s going on with them other than what we see on gossip websites. We don’t know what’s in their souls or in their mind, we don't know anything about them as people really, we just vaguely know them as celebrities.  
So live and let live, accept some things as they are and don’t judge anyone other than yourself.